Are you using a bad body language?
The most intriguing relationship of all today has been the parent-child relationship because most of us fail to know the essence of it. Buying high profile luxuries for your children won’t let you win their hearts. There are some simple ways you need to build this relationship stronger. Like any other relation, this has also experienced make or break policy. You slip off here and you will see them slip off there one day or the other. Like I have described in my other two articles what parenting is and what we actually feel it is, there is a vast difference in this understanding. Also, I have demonstrated how you are deteriorating your child’s health while using some unwanted luxuries to gain your child’s attention.
Body language guide
Likewise your every posture and gesture, action and reaction hits your baby’s brains every day trying to figure out why? Why did my mom choose to do this? Or why my dad chose to say this?
To give you a real-time experience of body language can be this. There have been immense of dramas off and on the street when mammas drag their children to the school or daddies hitting children with cane sticks. After a few hours of such pitiful incidences, you see these very parents trying to lure their kids again. A few decades after, you see these only kids treating their parents a similar way. Although reasons might not be the same that day mummy your body language spoke louder than what was actually in your heart. It screamed so loud that it has permanently veiled your love and care or your only child. This is what the reality is.
Children until they reach a particular age they constantly fight battles of ‘why’ that you might be completely unaware of.
In this article, we are going to stress more on you and your child’s body signs so as to build a better and strong relationship between you both.
Body signs of your child and how You as a parent should react to it
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Mouth slightly open with raised or narrowed eyebrows- This indicates that your baby is fascinated by something. It may sometimes move towards the object to get a deeper insight into what attracted it so much.
Dos-
If your baby still crawls make sure you get down to its level and make few hand signs as to what lightened him so much. Making hand gestures and eye contacts you can ask if he wants to experience the beauty. Carry him or walk him towards it by holding its hands and talking to them. If the thing is not worthy enough to watch or taste you can just try diverting its attention to something more unique and beautiful. It might resist for some time but sooner it will forget and get engaged with you.
Dont’s
When you find that your baby wants to get engaged in a thing don’t let others share this moment with them. Make sure you make efforts to enjoy this. Don’t just silently drop them to the place or hand them the thing only because you have off moods. If the fascinations are not worthy enough to buy or look at just don’t drag and scold them for not having so.
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Lips curving down and eyebrows narrowing down at the center- This indicates that your baby is in a very sad mood and is on the verge to cry.
Dos
Take your baby away from the unpleasant atmosphere. Take her on a short tour in a garden where pets are around. Show things that are first-of-the-kind to her so that she keeps her mind away from the unpleasant situation and keeps itself busy thinking what the new thing is all about.
